Hello Lovely, I’m Mona
—Spiritual Guide + Dark Femme Coach
I guide women and men into the places most spaces avoid —their emotions, their shadows, their desires, their shame, and turn those into sources of power. Blending shadow work with light work, spirituality with real-life embodiment, I create spaces where nothing about you is too much or too taboo.
My passion and gift is creating a safe and welcoming space for you to explore your heart’s desires, tap into your own inner wisdom, and align with your true purpose. As a Projector in Human Design, my unique ability is to ‘see’ you deeply and illuminate your blindspots so that you step into your full potential and live authentically.
Born Deeply Curious
I’ve always been drawn to deeper conversations and understanding what really drives us. While others were content with small talk or surface-level answers, I wanted meaning and clarity. From a young age, I found myself exploring tools like astrology, spirituality, and psychology as ways to better understand myself and how we grow and heal.
When I Lost Trust in Myself
Despite my inner curiosity and spiritual pull, there was a chapter of my life where I felt completely disconnected. I found myself repeating toxic relationship patterns, questioning my worth, struggling with self-doubt, and feeling deeply insecure. I learned to abandon myself for love, belonging, and validation —inside, I felt so lost.
Grief as the Portal for Initiation
Then in 2019, my life came crumbling down with the devastating loss of my mom. Grief brought me to my knees and shattered everything I thought I knew about myself and the world. That loss broke me —and at the same time, it initiated a descent into deep healing, self-discovery, and spiritual awakening. From that rock-bottom moment, I began a journey of remembering, who I truly was.
Turning Pain into Power
So in 2020, I quit my Marketing and Bartending jobs, and fully immersed myself in the studies of Human Design, Astrology, Psychology, Emotional Mastery, Shadow Work, Kabbalah, Occultism, Polarity, Reiki, Tantra, BDSM/Kink, and Sacred Sexuality. The tools, methods, and teachings I share with my clients and community are what continue to help me overcome dark challenging times, and continue to anchor me in alignment, courage, and self-trust.
Core Values
radical honesty
Telling the truth to ourselves first —feeling what’s real, naming what we’ve been avoiding, and choosing authenticity over pretending or performing.
self-ownership
Trusting that our emotions, desires, and intuition are inner guidance, and taking full responsibility for our choices, power, and the life we create.
depth & safety
Creating compassionate spaces where every part of you, your shadow, your softness, your shame, is welcomed to be seen without judgment.
My Mission
My work is about reflecting back the strength and potential I already see in you.
I believe every person has an inner wisdom, expressed through their emotions, desires, and intuition —and when we learn how to listen to it, life becomes more aligned, honest, and fulfilling.
My mission is to create safe, grounded spaces where you can slow down, tell the truth about what you’re feeling, and reconnect with who you really are beneath the noise and expectations. From that place, real change becomes possible.
